Friday, May 24, 2013

Forgiveness

I am one that either does not feel or feels too greatly
Many times when forgiveness is in question my feelings are not sedately

To forgive is to forget and that is something that I can not do
This is something to which I have no clue

Life is what a person makes
Nobody is perfect, everybody makes mistakes

I myself am not excluded
When I let myself down the feelings are not deluded

Many times I need to forgive myself
This is a thing that people need to remind themselves

Forgiveness is something that everybody must face
At some point in their lives there will be stakes

Whether I want to deal with a difficult decision or not
I have learned that it is something that is not bought

If I expect forgiveness from myself and others
I must deal with the situation at hand and then be open to anothers
 

Friday, May 17, 2013

Love and Companionship

There is love and companionship in every situation whether it is recognized or not. These are part of human emotions and they can not be ignored. Even the loner has companionship in their lives. That is one of the more important parts of life. The ability to talk to somebody and have them understand what you are going through is important. There is also the need to have somebody that can sympathise with the individual. Every person has the need to have that in their life and companions provide that comfort. The ability to love is also important. Whether it is the act of being loved or loving something else, it is needed in life. This does not always have to apply to animate objects. Loving things is also very common.

I am an awkward person and I find that I am more comfortable with books. I can have the love and companionship without the strange social aspect. The characters provide the companionship that life does not always bring. One can also experience love with books as well. If it is a good book, the reader feels the love that the author puts into it and that is more than one can ask for.
 
 

Friday, May 3, 2013

Rejection

Many times in a person's life they may feel like they have been rejected. I would be surprised if any individual could say that they have not been rejected before. The truth is that whether intentional or not, feelings may get hurt. This may be as simple as getting snubbed by the popular crowd, or even by somebody that is held in esteem.
An example of a situation in which one is repeatedly getting rejected will, in this case, involve Hannah, Callie, and Katie. All three are very good friends, but Hannah and Katie have become closer to each other and have started to exclude Callie from their activities. Callie will ask to hang out with them and both will say that they are not allowed to go anywhere that day. Callie later finds out that it is because they wanted to hang out without her. They both lied to her, somebody that considered the girls as friends. Callie is now without her two best friends. This snubbing did not just happen out of the blue though, it came on subtly. One day they are hanging out, and then the next they do not sit together at lunch, then the next the girls do not go to each others houses. It is not for lack of want, but for the change in the attitude of the two other girls. Callie is no longer part of the in crowd and now she has no more friends.
This may sound like it is not a big deal, but it can be crushing. These people were not just random strangers that did not want to be with her, but her best friends. She was used to having the companionship of these people, but they changed. They no longer included her and that hurt her. She may have felt like she had done something wrong that deserved the other girls censure. She lost not only her friends, but her self confidence because of some unfeeling people. 
It does not always happen this way though. The people do not have to reject others intentionally and feelings are not always meant to be hurt. An example is colleges. They can not let everybody into their school. They have to reject people and it is not to hurt them. There are choices that have to be made, even if they are hard.